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You are Love…

A very good article by Sherianna Boyle… full of truth…Enjoy!

Yes, Fear Is Inhibiting Your Love Life. Here’s The Fix

 

Love is difficult to capture in words because it encompasses so many things. A dictionary might say it’s a feeling of deep affection or a strong affection for another person. Yet love is far more than a feeling; it is a force, an energy. Love is not only something you send to or receive from others; it is also an energy you connect to and experience.

Love is not something you want but rather a calling to who you are.

edefining Love

Think of love as formless, timeless, limitless, boundless, abundant energy swirling around within and around your body. Authors such as Richard Gordon and speakers such as Christie Marie Sheldon have established this phenomenon in recent years.

In love, anything and everything is possible. It doesn’t matter whether you are awake or asleep, young or old, poor or rich. You already have love, and different than having food or water, love does not come in a limited supply. Love is not something you want but rather a calling to who you are. You are far more than what you physically can do or see. Love is in you, around you, part of your creation.

What About Romantic Love?

People often confuse passion with love. Each of us is inundated with images of passionate sex, passion for looks, money, possessions, fame, power, and attention. Let me set you straight: Love does not crave any of those things, because it already is everything.

This universal love is also respectful of who you are and what you need. It is capable of removing what you don’t need while retaining what you do. Similar to how you might pull the weeds from a garden without disturbing the root system of a plant, love releases negative emotions while supporting your intuition and ability to sort things through.

Don’t Believe These “Love Lies”

“Love lies” is a term that captures a branch of self-limiting beliefs about love. Self-limiting beliefs stem from feeling “less than” or being told (by yourself or someone else) you are not enough. Love lies spin off these beliefs. As a result, you may find yourself being rather sarcastic, consumed by negative thoughts, or bitter about love.

Love is energy, you are energy, therefore you are love.

eft unrecognized, these little lies help build protective walls, hardening the energy around your heart. This makes love seem obscure, sketchy, and rather elusive.

Nothing gives me more satisfaction than exposing a love lie. It is like finding the clues to a mystery or solving a puzzle. Here are some untruths I have come across either in myself or in my clients:

  • You either have love or you don’t.
  • You have to wait for love to come to you.
  • Love isn’t for everyone.
  • Love means “taking care of someone else.”
  • If your family didn’t tell you or show you that they loved you, then you pretty much grew up without love.
  • Love hurts.
  • Love shows up only when you are a size two or have lots of money.
  • You need love.
  • It is rare to find true love.

As you ponder these statements, know that what makes them false is that each of them is dependent on love coming from somewhere or someone else. Lie, lie, lie, false, false, and more false. Love is inside you. People and circumstances reflect what you feel inside.

These lies are based on your fear of losing love or perhaps never getting a chance to have it in the first place. (FYI, never having love is complete bullshit. Love is energy, you are energy, therefore you are love.) Love does not come toyou, it comes through you. You don’t need love: You can’t need something you already have.

I must confess that for most of my life, I confused choosing love with taking care of someone else. It didn’t matter if it was a friend, boyfriend, relative, or complete stranger; love was always a way for me to reach out and give something to someone. It never occurred to me to find love within. Yet the love within yourself is the strongest source.

How Fear Disconnects You from Love

So if this wonderful universal love is inside you and all around you all the time, why can’t you feel it? Because fear has gotten in the way and blocked your access to it.

You are probably used to thinking of fear in a very literal sense — being afraid of spiders, for example. But the fear I am talking about in this book is an even bigger concept than that. I’m talking about fear that’s such an inherent part of your life that you don’t even realize it’s there anymore.

It controls your decision-making, negates your ability to love yourself, and forces you to be less, do less, feel less. This type of fear shows itself in a variety of ways — such as insecurities, anger, stress, anxiety, blame, doubts, jealousy, lack of self-worth, and straight-up bullshit lies.

Are You Subconsciously Living in Fear?

But, Sheri, you say. I’m not afraid of love! I’d do anything to have more love in my life! I believe you, but I think you might actually have some subconsciousfear in your life. How do I know? Well, Dr. Bradley Nelson, author of The Emotion Code, reports that human beings are only about 10 percent conscious.

In other words, you might only be aware of about 10 percent of what is influencing you. Your fears might be lurking in that other 90 percent. The good news: Choosing to access universal love will help you clear out those fears and reclaim the path to love.

Tuning into love in the midst of negativity is like pulling the plug on fear. It will drain away and love will prevail.

The tricky part is that your conscious mind is influenced by your subconscious mind. The subconscious is the invisible part of you easily swayed by images and subliminal messaging. When you veg out in front of the television or computer, fear, negativity, and toxicity are more likely to reach you. Fear works like novocaine, numbing your ability to experience love.

You may be subconsciously buying into beliefs, illusions, and fantasies that play off a “lack of” or fear mentality rather than love. The truth is, love and fear do not mix. In fact, negativity hates love. It is its worst nightmare. Tuning into love in the midst of negativity is like pulling the plug on fear. It will drain away and love will prevail.

In my healing practice, I have discovered that two of the greatest fears human beings have are that they will never really know what it is like to be truly loved by others — in other words, that they will never “find love” — and that they will never know how to love themselves.

When you are afraid you won’t find love or keep love, you may end up “chasing love” or going overboard to find it. For example, you might want to “be nice” but then overcompensate by regularly doing things that others are more than capable of doing for themselves.

In other words, you try to “find” love via nice deeds. For example, I have seen grown, intelligent women sprint home after working all day to cook dinner for a boyfriend who could be cooking for himself.

Unfortunately, when you “find love” under these circumstances, it’s attached to fears of not being worthy of love. Universal love is never attached to worthiness — but you can see how well-meaning but fear-based actions can easily cause you to misinterpret the universal love.

Now, if you are like me, you are probably thinking, Crap, this choosing love thing is going to be HARD. You may be realizing how much of your life has been driven by fear and how difficult it will probably be to undo. I get it; I have been there. In the beginning, I was all geared up to take on the challenge.

What I have learned, and what I hope you will learn from my choices [notice I don’t say mistakes; I don’t believe in them] is that choosing love actually comes from a place of non-effort. What do I mean by that? The more you try, the less you actually feel. It is the trying that leads to tension.

Love happens when you sense and feel the direction. Something inside of you softens, listens, and trusts the path you are choosing regardless of the outcome. So don’t worry about the workload. It’s all gonna go smoothly when you give up trying to control love, I promise.

Subconscious Fear Thwarts Your Efforts to Choose Love

Science is finding that if you have a subconscious belief that you are fat or unworthy, or that life is unfair, your subconscious mind will knock out your efforts — unless, of course, you release these beliefs and build new ones (which we’ll do in this book). Your subconscious mind will return you to your “original state” of feeling fat or unworthy despite your efforts to change them. Only truly releasing those beliefs will allow you to build new ones.

Choosing love aligns you with your soul. Your soul is the part of you that remembers where you came from (love). So to choose love means to bring your soul back into your body. It is the blocks of fear that get in the way, and as these blocks are removed, you will be able to experience love’s power.Excerpted from Choosing Love Copyright © 2016 by Sherianna Boyle and published by F+W Media, Inc. Used by permission of the publisher. All rights reserved.

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Ascension and Fear

WOW! Did I ever need to read this one…THANK YOU, BRENDA HOFFMAN!

Ascension and Fear

Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:31 AM PDT

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 27, 2015 channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com / brenda-hoffman:  Previously, many of earth remained in pain/fear to enable pioneers and scout masters to move through Old Age fears. The pioneers/scout masters have done so and now all earth entities are accepting self-love. Creating a chaos of clearing – including many uncomfortable activities. Love is now spreading throughout earth to all – starting with personal self-clearing as was true for you.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com “Where Do You Rank?”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many speak of ascension. Does that mean you will die an early earth death? Or that you will become a new person? So many concepts about a simple shift. You are merely returning to the being you were prior to your first earth entry.

When you entered 3D earth, you added layers of physical, spiritual and emotional protection. Such protection separates you from yourself, all earth entities and now earth itself. Protection that has become a barrier to your future.

You have been quite adept at change throughout your earth life and beyond – even though one of your core beliefs is that you have not changed. Oh you look in the mirror and note physical changes, but you continue to believe that you adapt to your current world with the same skills you have used since you entered earth’s environment in this lifetime.

In truth, you have altered your beliefs and actions continuously since your earth birth. If you question that thought remember something as simple as your clothing or language. You easily changed with the times. Even your voice is different from when you were three or 20 years old. You have shifted and evolved continuously and will do so forever.

It is just that much of your 3D change was enmeshed in fear – for earthlings were addressing fear. Resulting in at least a touch of fear once you accept that your entire being is shifting during this new you transition.

“What will I look like? What does that mean for my earth longevity in this lifetime? What’s going to happen to my loved ones?” And on and on. All questions tinged in fear. For the word ‘change’ often makes you contemplate how best to move through that change to avoid fear.

Such is one of the reasons you need to process new you at your personal pace of acceptance and joy. So you are. All the while wondering how your ascension – however you define ascension – will impact your life.

Few of you envision the process of ascension as a joyful experience. Not because you are enmeshed in pain, but because your 3D beliefs are that you likely will be.

In essence, setting yourself up for failure. Not that failure is a possibility, but that you believe it might be. Yet another deeply hidden fear you are coming to terms with as you evolve in this transition.

There are several reasons why fear continues to be closely related to this transition in your mind.

Three D earth changes were expected and discussed. Even though you shifted your thoughts and actions as you spent time on earth, such was completed in a social framework that allowed you to believe only your physical being was changing. How many of you have commented to one another that even though you are a certain age, you feel as you did when you were in your 20s? Such is not true, but you believe it is. A piece that is uncomfortable for you now.

For no one is providing an overview of how you will react, shift or how long you will remain of earth in this lifetime. Even though there are many resources for this wondrous shift, there is no overall guide about to what to expect.

Puberty, middle-age, marriage, pregnancy, menopause, retirement years, All expected 3D actions and reactions. Even though there is a wide range of actions within those broad categories, you knew you might be uncomfortable but you would not implode or disappear.

This new you transition continuously reminds you that you are your guide. For what? When? How? Where? All frightening pieces you try to ignore as you swim upstream – against the social tide. You are moving/transitioning/evolving on faith. Which often wears a bit.

You have been told that your physical being is shifting – yet no one can verify that. You have been told your friendship circle will expand or finances are easy to obtain – yet you have not necessarily experienced either.

Even though you are hoping the future is as prophesied, you have little evidence that such is so. A bit like when you wanted to date and your parents made you wait until they felt you were mature enough to do so. All worked out eventually even though you did not believe you could waylay your gratification when your need to be romantically involved first appeared.

So it is now. You are not children. But since you are merely beginning to experience the joy we have long prophesied with not a lot to show for it, you question the information you receive. Even though you are rapidly evolving day by day, you have not yet realized such is so. We are observing you – as did your parents – and know you are now a more mature new you than you realize.

Does such a thought matter if you are not experiencing what you wish to experience? We can only direct you. You must complete that process by allowing yourself to move at the pace correct for you. Which perhaps seems like yet another carrot. But, in truth, is affirming that you are now a young Universal adult. So all pieces right and comfortable will fall in place when the time is right for you.

You are no longer a Universal infant, child or teen-ager. You are a Universal young adult creating the life right for you one step at a time. First you had to clear those pieces tied to former lives – your climb up the mountain. Then you cleared those pieces that hindered your evolution in this lifetime – rolling down the hill. Now, yet again, you are moving forward more rapidly than anyone thought possible.

So it is you now wish to zoom around the Universes, as well as maintain your earth life in this lifetime. So you will – one step at a time. For many of your physical changes are to increase your skill set and longevity.

Does that mean you will live to be 150 years old in this lifetime? Only you know. You are writing the transition book. For your 3D information about puberty, menopause and so many other physical/emotional/intellectual shifts was created by millions of people experiencing somewhat the same shift.

Do you suppose the first cave people understood puberty? Probably as little as they understood eclipses. For early earth beings were certain the world was ending when an eclipse covered their mid day sun.

So it is you are compiling the many shifts that will eventually be labelled ascension by future earth generations. But then, those born in the future will not undergo the depth and number of shifts you are now. For how to live and prosper in New Earth will be part of their wiring from birth. All because of you. So be it. Amen.

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Anxiety, Stress and Overwhelm…BE GONE! with the help of Rudy Hunter

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Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy!

I love this one… Enjoy!

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Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy

Posted: 22 Jul 2014 10:57 AM PDT

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 18, 2014 channeled, free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Those of you who cleared your core fear in the past few days will discover that your next big piece is expecting and accepting joy. A seemingly easy task until you attempt to do so.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “What’ and ‘Why’ – New Earth Clearing Tools”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many fear outcomes despite moving beyond the need to do so. You expect the same result true for this lifetime – before your transition – and many, if not all, previous lifetimes. It is as if someone has gifted you millions of dollars and you wonder when it will be taken away. Or you gamble with your winnings believing it does not matter, as all will be gone soon.

Then, there are those who will relish and enjoy the gifted millions – without embarrassment or apologies.

And so it is that you are at a belief crossroads. Do you truly believe in this transition? Or have you merely been voicing your belief in joy, but maintaining fears deep within you?

Perhaps you feel such is unfair for you have suffered for eons for the core belief embedded deep within you and just learned a few days ago what that core belief was – so you need more processing time.

In the 3D world you are most familiar with, you indeed would require and be allowed more time, But this is now, this is new earth. It is time to get ‘over yourself’ You have a beacon of light within you that you promised the Universes to shine.

That last statement appears to be yet another care taking role and so it is. Only this time, you are care taking yourself. Quite different from past eons when you were at the end of the care taking line. Everyone – parents, children, spouses, friends, community, country – came first. Do you understand that few wars would have been possible if self interests were culturally acceptable?

Perhaps you are thinking we are advising you to be selfish. We are. For once in this life and many others, determine who you are and what you need.

In the Old Age, lines were drawn. Take care of women, children, country, anyone deemed less powerful than you – and finally you.

Who determined what groups were less powerful or more needy?

Is it not true that only in the past 100 years or so in modern history, women were allowed to experience similar risks, jobs and activities as men? In past centuries were not seven-year-old children – both male and female – considered adults? Have not several female dominated cultures been discovered by archaeologists? Are there not countries who refuse participate in wars?

And yet, you continue believe that current culturally accepted and dominant behavior patterns are cast in stone.

When did those aforementioned cultural patterns change and why? What did those patterns represent that do not require representation in your current life? If changes occurred throughout earth history and were accepted and followed, why can you not believe that you can easily now live in joy?

You do not need to live in joy if you would rather not – but why not? The Universes – and you – are gifting you with love and abundance. It is time to accept and believe. Believing means knowing without a doubt that the pain of yesterday is no more.

You can fight and argue to live your pain/Old Age beliefs, but joy is here. Maintaining your pain belief is no different from continuing to believe horses are the most important means of transportation even though automobiles, airplanes and trains are readily available.

Shift you thinking process from that of pain to pleasure. Not because you have to – but why would you not want to?

Perhaps you feel you must accept pleasure. Such is the case for different reasons than you now perhaps imagine.

In past eons, you were forced to accept the beliefs best for society – at any cost to your person hood.

You are now accepting joy because of your person hood. Perhaps it will help you to think of this as a reading or math lesson you might not be particularly like, but something you must complete before progressing to more advanced studies.

For indeed, if you do not accept joy/pleasure/self-love; and the same is true for the next person and the next and the next – your life will remain in a fear mode. Earth and all other earth entities are shifting – whether or not you appreciate that. And it is time for human entities to fully accept their role in this amazing transition.

Even though you do not have to accept your new life of joy, you will be truly out-of-step with your world if you do not. And you will live in fear and pain far beyond the time you need to.

You have completed your fear lessons. You have cleansed – and exited your cocoon. Now allow yourself to accept and yes, enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Accept the Universal gifts being showered upon you. Accept joy, despite old indicators that you need to fear something.

Allow yourself to move beyond first grade. You no longer need to read those painfully boring Dick and Jane books. You can read whatever genre is of interest to you – as long as it is not frightening or painful. Those chapters of your life are long gone.

Accept and allow yourself to grow in the joy of your being. That is your Universal beacon of love and light – closely observed by those pondering whether to follow you.

Allow yourself to be in this new earth.

Accept that you are as powerful as you sometimes now imagine. Your new roles are in joyful drama and comedies. Your in-depth frightening and depressing dramas have successfully been completed. So be it. Amen

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Banish Your Fears with “Emotions Whisperer”, Colleen Flanagan

 Fear-Clearing Replay!

with  “Emotions Whisperer”

“Don’t cower, empower!

BANISH YOUR FEAR!

An energizing and entertaining emotional wellness coach and speakerColleen Flanagan assists fear-ridden people and pets to get FREED of their stress, anxiety and struggle, with a dash of humor and a ton of compassion.
Colleen knows that most of what we don’t want comes from fears of failure, success or not feeling safe.
Once those fears are clear, we are free of pain,  we move forward in love or business, living in hope, joy and peace again.
Colleen‘s advice: “The world can be a scary place these days but we can still find and share inner peace.  Here’s the Link for my interview with Colleen Flanagan:

Title: Colleen Flanagan on Emboldened Heart

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I want the very best for you! I want to help you open the doors to achieve more love, more peace, more abundance, more light, more of whateverYOUR HEART DESIRES!

Warm Regards,

Malinda Zarate

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Dissolve Your Fear – Sept. 11th Special Event with Rudy Hunter

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